wHY shouLd We NeeD to FOrgiVE??

      

Forgiveness?? What is forgiveness?? Why we should forgive one?? Those questions used to spark on to my mind all the when I was young. And i will be wondering for the answers until i got to know the answer from my mum. According to her forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you may always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you. She even asked me that ''When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge or embrace forgiveness and move forward?'' I just stared at the wall and said ''i would hold on anger and show up my grudges''. She wonders why. Because I was grown up in that way and no one expect sorry from me. At here, my mum told that my assumption is very wrong. I should not expect everyone to be the same. What is the wrong if I go down and ask for forgiveness? Forgiveness is pure. But if you don't practice forgiveness, you may be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Forgiveness is equal to goddess.

Now I am older enough to discover my own meaning of forgiveness. Forgiveness in one sense means being absolved of our sins. However a real forgiveness means more than just the forgiveness of our wrong actions. Divine forgiveness involves illumination. Our ignorance becomes not just temporarily absolved but transformed. Speaking on divine forgiveness Sri Chinmoy says:

“Our human mind may call it forgiveness, but God is not thinking about our inner and outer misdeeds. He just wants us to raise our consciousness so that we will increase our receptivity and oneness with Him.”

                                                          

I have learned to forgive everyone. At this part, I find peace within myself. But I don’t know the way to forgive truly. Because true forgiveness requires to be sincere in our forgiveness of others we should not even remember the incident. Sometimes forgiveness can be conditional, we shall tell somebody we have forgiven them, but maybe later we will bring it up to use it against them. This is not real forgiveness. Only when we do not think about the experience have we really forgiven others.

Once there came a situation where I need to for a real forgiveness. I said some terrible things to my close friend in anger and didn't hear from her for a few weeks. Recently, I received an e-mail saying she "forgave" me but no longer wants to keep in touch, adding that it is important for her to know that I am happy.

I wrote back saying I still want to stay in touch and remain friends. I apologized profusely for my lapse in judgment, but she hasn't responded.

My dear, I thought forgiveness meant to absolve, to cease to feel resentment -- to "wipe the slate clean." Am I wrong to feel that? Isn't she still holding a grudge against me? I realize it's up to her to communicate, but I'm confused how she can claim she forgives me while still harboring bad feelings.

  Moseying on down the road of life, and in the future watches my words, or eventually I may find myself friendless. I truly forgive everyone and I hope everyone should owe forgiveness to all because mistakes are done by every human being. Easily forgive and forget.

           

MARooN FIVE..

Adam Levine - Vocals, Guitar
James Valentine - Guitar
Jesse Carmichael - Keyboards
Mickey Madden - Bass
Ryan Dusick - Drums

 

    They are the members of Maroon 5. They all went to high school together in west Los Angeles. They put together a band called Kara's Flowers and played their first public show at the legendary Whisky a Go Go in 1995. Their grunge style caught the attention of Reprise Records, and, despite production from Green Day producer Rob Cavallo, the album The Fourth World was a commercial flop but they never give up.What they wanted was just a time gap so all of them headed to various of colleges. the four original band members got back together in 2001 to stay playing again and thats where Jmaes Valentine joins the band. This is how the rock band rise up to the Hollywood music industry.

                                                         

     Maroon 5 is a popular rock music band based out of Los Angeles, California. They have had several songs that have hit the Billboard Top 100, including "This Love", "Sunday Morning", and "Wake Up Call." Whether you're familiar with the names of these songs are not, chances are that you've heard these tracks on the radio or seen them on MTV. Yup, Maroon 5 gets a lot of play. The music by Maroon 5 is influenced by many different sources, including traditional rock, soul, and pop.they are different than other bands.their music blends impressed me. however, In the band's history, they have released only two albums, putting them into the marketplace a full five years apart. Their songs are typically played on top 40 radio stations. This hugely popular band has won several awards including Grammy. Their first, Songs About Jane, received much popular and critical acclaim. It was released on June 25, 2002. To date, over 8 million copies have been sold, achieving quadruple platinum status in the United States, as well as multi-platinum certification in the UK, Australia, and New Zealand.

                                                     

                                                                            

     Anyhow, for me, Misery is the hit song of Maroon 5. the song is about the narrator finding himself in a difficult situation when a relationship fades. "Why won't you answer me? Your silence is slowly killing me. Girl you really got me bad," he states in the lyrics. The song documents the decay of a relationship, familiar territory for the band. "'Misery' is about the desperation of wanting someone really badly in your life but having it be very difficult. Kind of what all the songs I write are about. I'm not treading on new ground, but I think a lot of people - including myself - deal with that all the time. Relationships are difficult, and it's good therapy to write about them' said Frontman Adam Levine. It is not only that, even the video of the song was superb. i like the she hit and bash the guy. that was really eye catchy.

                                                                                           

                                 

   Same goes to the song ' Wont Go Home Without You'. Especially the beat of the song really great. In the song, he is just trying to make the girl understand what he wanted to say and he wants her to stay but the girl ignores. the lyrics is simply meaningful and close to our heart. It is something related to reality. As like most of girls would never wanted to listen anymore to the guys. Thats sounds pratical and i am so addicted to both of those songs. Will be singing whenever situation sinks. 

 

 I LIKE MAROON 5. THEY ARE MISERIES AND I WONT BE WITHOUT  LISTENING TO THEIR SONGS..!!!